Post Written by Jennifer Iacovelli
Three weeks after I realized my marriage was ending, I traveled to Nicaragua with WaterAid on an insight trip representing Mom Bloggers for Social Good. We visited the most remote areas of the country to see the work that WaterAid was doing with communities lacking clean water access and basic sanitation. It was a life-changing experience that allowed me to gain a tremendous amount of perspective.
I met women and teens who were trained by WaterAid to build wells and toilets for their communities. These were women whose husbands were typically away during the week working in the city, and teen girls who missed a tremendous amount of school, if they went at all, because of their household responsibilities. Fetching water from the river took up valuable time that they could have used to work or go to school. The training allowed them to not only gain valuable skills and earn money, but it also empowered them to become leaders in their community.
A few of the women even got to hire their own husbands for work when they needed extra help on projects. They beamed when they gave me this information.
I remember asking Linda what she purchased with the extra cash she earned by building and maintaining wells in her small community. She told me that she was able to purchase things like shoes and books for her children. Rarely did she purchase anything for herself.
I was struck by how similar I was to these women. While our circumstances were most certainly different, as mothers all we wanted was to provide for our children. To keep them happy and give them the basic things they needed in life.
Once my divorce was finalized, I started to focus more on taking care of myself. I joined a gym and decided that I wanted my physical strength to match my mental strength. After going through a tumultuous seven months, I was ready to take control of my life again. I did just that. The result? I gained more strength than I ever thought possible.
Along the way, I found a caring and supportive community in WolfPack Fitness that didn’t judge me for my small size or marital status. I found a trainer that challenged me and showed me what my body was capable of. I found women and men who lifted each other up. I found a place where “like a girl” was not an insult.
I also found a place where I could bring my passion for clean water for everyone. This past weekend we honored the strong, empowered women and teens I met in Nicaragua with a water-themed outdoor workout to celebrate World Water Day. We went #blue4water, wearing the color blue and turning our non-traditional gym equipment – cinderblocks, sledgehammers, tires and buckets – blue. We told a Nicaragua-inspired water story through our movements, even pushing a car up a hill to mimic how my team and I would often have to get our car going during our trip. Together, we raised $250 for WaterAid America.
My kids asked me the other day if I was stronger than their dad. They didn’t wait for an answer. They were already convinced I am. They see me work day in and day out to keep everything going. Though it’s not all that pretty or organized, I get the job done.
As mothers and women we do extraordinary things every day. I am thankful to have met Linda and the other women and girls in Nicaragua who are making the most of the opportunities in front of them so that they can live the best life possible. I only wish they didn’t have to live in an area where finding clean water and a toilet was such a challenge.
I hope you will join me in celebrating World Water Day by wearing blue and raising awareness of the fact that 650 million people around the world are still lacking access to safe, clean water.