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It was September 2016 and I had just started my first semester of graduate school and living in New York City, and was looking for opportunities to work with international NGOs with a focus on women and girls. In my research, I ended up coming across the opportunity to become a blogger with Girls’ Globe. Having worked as a writer and editor for a women’s online magazine in college, and having always enjoyed writing and even considered becoming a journalist as a teenager, joining Girls’ Globe as a blogger was the perfect opportunity for me.
But Girls’ Globe is more than just a platform for me to share my experience and knowledge: it’s also a platform where I can learn about women’s issues in other parts of the world that I wouldn’t otherwise know about. So many times, in reading posts by other bloggers on their experiences as women having to deal withpressure to get married or the reality of how vulnerable we are to sexual violence, I feel less alone.
Girls’ Globe has truly become a community to me: a community which has supported me and encouraged me in some of my darkest moments.
Since early this year, my mental health issues have taken a turn for the worse. It’s not easy for me to share my struggles with anxiety and depression as I always fear people’s reaction, but when I did share them with different women from our Girls’ Globe community, I was met with nothing but kindness, understanding, and encouragement.
Even when I struggled to write posts and felt ‘guilty’ – I love to write, and I found it especially hard when I had an idea and the material to write a post, but was unable to complete it because I was ill – I was met with messages of encouragement to take care of myself and not to worry about anything else.
When my depression was at its worst, and I felt utterly useless and like I had no reason to get out of bed, it was knowing that my fellow bloggers care about me as a person and thinking that there is still so much I want to do with and for Girls’ Globe in the future that gave me a much needed ray of sunshine in my dark days.
At Girls’ Globe, we encourage the potential in every one of our contributors, and we believe in each other and our power to make a positive difference. It isn’t about some unrealistic ambition that we will completely change the world for the better for women and girls (although, hey, we might!), but it’s an understanding that despite our limitations (such as mental health issues), we can all make a positive impact, no matter how small.
This is the heart and soul of Girls’ Globe to me: that we truly believe in the potential of each and every girl and woman in the world to be an agent for good.
I have recently been accepted into a PhD program – a dream come true for me and the opportunity of a lifetime – and I wholeheartedly believe that I wouldn’t have achieved this incredible milestone without the academic and professional opportunities and the personal encouragement and friendships that Girls’ Globe has given me.
Thank you, Girls’ Globe, for everything. For believing in me when I didn’t believe in myself, for being there for me when I felt alone, for helping me grow, and for giving me hope that there is indeed good in the world.
Throughout the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence, Girls’ Globe is crowdfunding to be able to keep raising voices in 2018. Please support us so that we can continue to share our stories and reach every corner of the world!
I know 2017 hasn’t been a great year for many of us, but I like to think there’s always some good to find in every year. After the events that took place around the world in 2016 (I’m sure you know what I’m talking about…), I was feeling utterly powerless. I felt the need to do something, but I didn’t know what or where or how.
I felt the world was falling apart around me and I wasn’t sure where to start with picking up the pieces. I’m sure that many others in many countries felt this way too. Then, in mid-2017, I found myself facing imminent unemployment, and that’s when I discovered Girls’ Globe. My friend – and now fellow blogger – Gabrielle Rocha Rios introduced me to this amazing, supportive community of strong, outspoken women. They share similar values and a passion for the same causes: gender equality and women’s rights. So, I joined Girls’ Globe!
I’m very thankful for this community. I finally feel powerful.
I finally have a space where I can raise the issues few people around me talk about.
I finally have a platform to both learn about and raise awareness of those issues.
I finally feel that I can speak up and be heard.
Girls’ Globe inspires me to react, to confront, and to report. Girls’ Globe gave me the courage to say #MeToo, to tell my boss I was being harassed by a co-worker, to report a creepy Uber driver, to speak up.
I’ve learned that if we’re always scared of saying the wrong thing, of upsetting others, of creating controversy, we’ll never say anything at all. We’re in the middle of an unprecedented international movement where women are showing the rest of the world the reality of our daily lives. We’re being brave together. We’re standing up for ourselves and we’re standing up for others.
To some people, the number of cases of harassment and abuse we’ve revealed this year is shocking. To us, it’s no surprise at all. Every day more and more cases are brought to light and thanks to that more and more people are realising that almost every woman has gone through some level of trauma in her life because of a man. And men who have abused the power their gender awards them are finally beginning to be held accountable.
So here’s to Girls’ Globe, to being brave, and to kicking up a storm! Let’s continue to speak up.
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The last time a man sexually harassed me was yesterday. I was running when I heard a whistle followed by, “I like the look of that.” Running faster, I looked back to make sure he wasn’t following me. Then I ran for another 30 seconds and checked again. And then I looked once more to make sure that he was off in the distance.
I responded as I did because I understand the risk I take by running alone. I understand what it means to be reduced to that, a dehumanized sum of my sexual parts, and I understand that a rape would be perceived as my fault. “She shouldn’t have been out there alone,” they’d say. “But what a shame.”
This is tense and traumatic space: we live in a society that acknowledges violence against women as wrong, and yet accepts this violence as inevitable and therefore normal.
We speak of Roy Moore with repulsion, wondering how he can be ahead in the polls, and yet he maintains his lead. We mourn the death of Hugh Hefner, lauding him as iconic while completely ignoring the accusations of sexual assault. We even accepted former President George Bush’s admission and rationalization of assault without protest when his press secretary gingerly explained that “he [President Bush] has patted women’s rears in what he intended to be a good-natured manner.”
Still, for me the most painful example of the acceptance of violence against women is the man who sits in the White House. Trump has been accused of sexual assault, walked into the dressing room of adolescent girls, bragged about groping women, called women pigs and dogs and directly stated that one must “treat em [women] like shit.” He was still elected because his blatant disregard of women as humans with equal rights to safety and dignity is excusable in a society that accepts and normalizes violence against us.
This is all so outrageous, isn’t it? And yet it is our lived reality, and one that I’m struggling to find words to describe.
In this reality women are responsible for managing men’s reactions to our bodies. This isn’t a lofty theory; this is the rule of the road. Rape trials routinely examine what a woman was wearing when assaulted. If she passed out because she drank too much, then she was at fault for putting herself in a vulnerable position where – understandably, inevitably – some man could not help but rape her.
When I run, I make sure that my shorts aren’t too short- and yet I know that I could be raped anyway. But I’m doing my due diligence not to provoke the men who will be provoked whether I’m in a bikini or a burlap sack because this social rule is so engrained into my psyche. It’s a prescription for madness.
To fight this madness we’ve begun telling our stories and raising our voices with #MeToo. I have mixed feelings on this campaign because I feel a nauseating irony in telling our stories to those who have written them. Men know the violence around us because they are the ones committing the violence. It’s like telling the butcher that he slaughtered the cow, or telling those responsible for cleaning the carcass that the butcher slaughtered the cow.
Not all men perpetuate violence against women, but too many do – and even more hold space for the contaminated culture.
One in five women living in the United States will be raped in her lifetime. Nine out ten rape survivors are female whereas as over nine out of ten perpetrators are male. These perpetrators are less likely to go to jail or prison than perpetrators of any other category. So, these are normal guys. These are our fathers, brothers, uncles, cousins, sons and friends. They have nice manners and good jobs. They watch baseball games and garden. They tell us they love us.
And then some of them will catcall the woman walking to her car. Others will approach her. Others will grab her, assault her, rape her.
No, not all men. But too damn many of them.
I grapple with how we can change a culture that is simultaneously horrified by and accepting of sexual assault, especially when so many ordinary men and women foster this culture through acts, words and silence. But when I apply what I have learned working globally with women and girls, this is what I can come up with:
Believe survivors: only 2-10% of reported sexual assaults are false claims and yet an estimated 63% go unreported, in part because women assume that they will not be believed
Raise boys to change their culture: We teach girls to avoid sexual assault; now it is time we teach boys not to commit sexual assault. This isn’t just telling them to ‘respect women,’ but explaining power and coercion, exploitation and abuse, consent and autonomy. These conversations need to happen repeatedly.
Hold men and boys accountable: Sexist jokes are not funny. Excusing sexual harassment and assault is wrong. We need to reverse the culture of acceptance on a micro level.
Support survivors: Be the friend. That is everything, everything.
Support organizations that support survivors: I donate regularly to RAINN and run their virtual 5k every year. RAINN is the largest anti-sexual violence organization in the US and runs a 24/7 phone hotline and Internet chat for survivors in English and Spanish. Its work matters.
Unfortunately, I can’t think of a truly positive ending to a blog addressing the acceptance and normalization of violence against women. The ray of hope is that, despite the seemingly infinite space for violence, we are expanding our resistance through campaigns like these 16 Days of Activism. Change will come. We just have to keep fighting for it.
As one of J&J’s partners, Girls’ Globe was there to document the process and profile the seventeen Young Leaders from around the globe; young people working on empowering projects and representing issues from their communities – issues that inspired them to do more.
I met the Girls’ Globe team – a group of diverse, intelligent and inspiring woman who were there to share our stories, but at the same time, to share their own. I was very interested to learn more about them. How did they become bloggers for this global organization dedicated to inspiring others? I immediately thought: what an incredible project! How can I be a part of it? I remember casually saying, “hey, if you ever need a new blogger, let me know…” but I never actually thought it would happen!
During the week, we took a road trip from New York to New Jersey, and on the way back I was sitting next to Girls’ Globe Founder – Julia Wiklander. Since there was a lot of traffic, we started chatting about our projects and how we wound up where we are.
I told Julia about the time I was counselor of a WiSci (Women in Science) Camp at Peru, an initiative of Girl Up, which is a UN campaign that sees girls from Mexico, the United States, Peru and Chile learning from companies like Google and Intel.
I told her that we had the incredible opportunity to write a few blog posts on Huffington Post about the experience, but also how unfortunate it was that they were posted on Huffington Post Spain, because there was’t a dedicated platform for Latin America (until recently – Huffington Post has since expanded to Mexico). I thought it was a shame because although we share the same language, we have very different realities, and I felt we needed a distinct platform for Latin America.
So I dropped the big question: “Hey, have you thought of translating girlsglobe.org to Spanish?” Without hesitation Julia said: “Oh, I haven’t, but let’s do it!”
First, I joined Girls’ Globe as blogger, and the rush of writing my first post about Latin America’s march against gender-based violence was incredibly empowering. Every statistic was painful, but the thought of writing for a global platform about issues specifically affecting my region, my country and of my community kept me going. I was going to be able to share our pain and our joy, and have other women and men from the world join our fight.
I was (and I still am) talking about Girls’ Globe everywhere. We now have several active bloggers from Latin America. We’re adding content about our region, and that is a major victory.
One of the major challenges is something for which I have to applaud the Latin American bloggers: writing and expressing themselves in another language. One of our big goals for the future is to be able to translate content on girlsglobe.org – not only into Spanish, but Portuguese too – as by doing so we will be able to elevate more girls and young women from the region who feel more comfortable writing in their native language.
And so this is a love letter to girlsglobe.org. Girls’ Globe has given me a place where I can raise my voice, without fear and without censure, and for that I will be forever grateful. It has given me the opportunity to bring more women on board to join this unique community and give them a space to express themselves about issues that matter to them. Girls’ Globe is a place where we can all belong.
Throughout the 16 Days of Activism Against Gender Violence, Girls’ Globe is crowdfunding to be able to keep raising voices in 2018. Please support us so that we can continue to share our stories and reach every corner of the world! If you are a Latin American reader and are interested in becoming a blogger, please feel free to leave a comment.
Gender-based violence (GBV) remains one of the most pervasive and persistent violations of human rights in the world. It reaches into every country, every community and every corner of our planet, rearing its ugly head in an ever-shifting range of guises.
The focus of the 2017 #16Days campaign is to ‘Leave No One Behind’. It’s an opportunity to raise greater awareness of GBV and its impact, but also a chance for us to reinforce the global commitment to creating a world free from violence for all, reaching the most marginalized – including refugees, migrants, minorities, indigenous peoples, and populations affected by conflict and natural disasters – as our first priority.
For each of the #16DaysofActivism, Girls’ Globe will be publishing opinions, ideas and stories from within our global community.
The voices of the individuals and groups with the Girls’ Globe network highlight some of the most pressing issues related to GBV in the world today, as well as some of the most inspiring examples of advocacy and activism.
To kick off the 2017 16 Days of Activism, we’ve rounded up the year’s 16 most-read GBV blogs on girlsglobe.org. We hope you enjoy reading or re-reading your way through the list, and stay tuned for brand new content published each day until 10 December. Together, we can end violence against women and girls. Together, we can #orangetheworld.
“Taekwondo is a Korean martial art that, like many martial arts, is just as much a way of life as a way to get fit. To succeed in taekwondo, there is only one opponent you have to beat: yourself. You need to accept your limits and turn them into advantages. You need to accept failure and see it as learning: another step towards your goal.You need to accept pain (in a healthy and controlled way), and you will learn that you can endure more than you think.”
“Victims of assault can have counter-intuitive reactions, which can in turn exacerbate their trauma and cripple recovery efforts. When we broached the question of maladaptive reactions, Wasil was unsurprised, having worked with clients who turn to chemical painkillers like drugs and alcohol, as well as those who develop internal ones, like sexual addiction or gambling. She says that trauma can do more than alter a person’s behavior, it can also decimate their emotional capacity.”
“It’s been roughly 100 days since 2017 began. Reflecting on the past year’s campaigns against FGM and early marriages, it is true that all who are involved have come a long way. There have been moments where the campaign may have faltered and made missteps – but we’ve also seen some significant progress.”
“It seems easy to question some other random person. Yet, it’s more often not some other random person, it’s your co-worker, your neighbor, your friend, your sister. Maybe it’s you. Maybe you don’t know it is. Maybe you think someone else’s situation is worse and so you justify to yourself that yours isn’t that bad, so it couldn’t be considered abuse.”
“Smart, strong, reasonable women who have been victimized by sexual assault can still be vulnerable to abusive relationships, sexual situations they don’t know how to control, and unsure how or when to say ‘no’.”
“In Lesotho (southern Africa), sugar daddies are called ‘blessers’. As girls’ bodies start to change in early adolescence, older men take notice. The girls, often orphans with no emotional support, crave the attention and feel that it is cool to have an older man show interest in them. A mother from Lesotho explains, ‘we find that for some girls who have grown up without a father, these sugar daddies provide something like a ‘fatherly love’, but really they are exploiting them.'”
“Rape is a crime that feeds on silence, and it takes a rupture in the status quo to affect change. After the success of the Akayesu case, local Rwandan tribunals ruled that rape was a “category one” crime, in the same grouping as murder. This was a tremendous step forward, setting a lasting precedent for the severity of sexual assault.”
“I had to ask a group of women if I should write this at all. If this is how I want to show Mexico to Girls’ Globe’s readers; but they asked me, how could I not? How could I not use this platform to tell the rest of the world what they are doing to us? How could I not write about the gender based violence we live amongst every day? How could I not use this privilege as a way to give those women and girls their voices back – the voices that were ripped out of their chests?”
“We believe that educating girls is the best long-term strategy for ending gendercide. In a beautiful arc of giving, the at-risk women who made the baby booties are, knowingly or unknowingly, helping the next generation of girls so that they don’t have to be at risk.”
“When I went to bed that night, I could not fall asleep thinking of Brisa’s story. I reached for the conference app (yes, thank goodness for technology) and requested a meeting, to which she agreed enthusiastically. I could not believe it. I knew that this story absolutely had to be told and shared with the world to bring to light exactly what violence against women means, but also as an example of what it will take to tackle violence head on.”
“The rates of child marriage in the region are alarming. According to UNICEF, in five countries (Nicaragua, Brazil, Dominican Republic, Guatemala, and Honduras) at least 30 percent of girls marry before the age of 18. In more than 11 countries, among them Bolivia, Colombia, Cuba, Ecuador, El Salvador, Mexico, and Panama, between 20 and 30 percent of girls marry before they turn 18.”
“I think the worst part of being harassed or assaulted is that it makes you forget to be kind to yourself. It makes you question your own existence and forget how to accept yourself. For me, it has taken years of ignorance, silence, self-blame, and internalization, as well as thousands of conversations with friends and family, to feel ‘worthy’ again.”
“Women and girls are crying out for help. Becoming aware of abuse taking place around us can drive us to make a change and offer a helping hand to those who need one. We each have resources that others may not have, so let’s use our individual privileges to shed some light. To the girls in South Africa who need a safe haven: this country and the authorities might let you down, but I never will.”
“In emergency contexts where social networks are lost or strained, women and girls too often become targets of violence and abuse – like sexual violence as a weapon of war, exploitation and harassment as refugees, domestic violence and abuse, and child marriage in the upheaval of displacement. And when it comes to the assistance that impacts them, they are frequently kept out of the decision-making process.”